Let's Hug

Hello chingonas,

This past week, I attended my uncle’s funeral, and amidst the grief, I experienced something profoundly healing—the power of a hug. A friend had asked if I’d been hugged before the funeral, and it struck me: I couldn’t remember the last time I truly felt held. When was the last time you were hugged, mija? Maybe it’s been too long for many of us.

Surrounded by family and friends, I felt genuine embraces that reminded me of the comfort a simple hug can bring. It soothed a part of me I hadn’t realized was craving it so deeply. My inner child still longs for that sense of security, love, and connection that we often neglect to give ourselves. A hug may be a small gesture, but it goes beyond words, nourishing us in a way that feels especially needed as first-gen and immigrant Latinas, who often carry the weight of bridging two worlds.

Why Do We Wait?
For many of us, life’s big moments—celebrations or losses—become the only times we slow down enough to fully embrace each other. Why should we wait for a sad occasion to hold each other close? In our Latino community, physical affection can feel infrequent, lost in our daily grind of responsibilities and the unspoken expectations to be strong. And this is even more true for our men; Latino men need hugs, too. But imagine if we normalized hugs in everyday life, giving each other that small but powerful reminder that we’re not alone in our experiences.

Let’s Make Hugging a Habit
I’m determined to be a hugger—I want to hug everyone! Let’s explore how we can make hugs a regular part of our lives, greeting friends, siblings, or parents with a warm embrace. And let’s allow ourselves to ask for one when we need it. Embracing this simple act can fill a need we often don’t voice but deeply feel.

A Challenge to Hug More
In the rush of our daily lives, taking a moment to hug someone—a friend, a parent, a child—grounds us, expresses love, and nourishes our souls. It’s a small but impactful way to stay connected to ourselves and each other.

Let’s start normalizing hugs, honoring our culture, and the importance of connection. Sometimes, we only need a hug to feel seen, valued, and whole. Thank you for being part of this reflection. May we each take a moment today to give a hug and receive one in return

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With cariño,
Viridiana